No 57 of Living Life Series 1
In life, men always get involved in blame games. They like to blame others when life doesn't go as expected. This seems to make them feel vindicated, sort of 'not my fault' mentality. But this may create more problems than solve problems.
The problem needs to be addressed and the focus is not on who to blame. Do not even blame oneself. Do not make life into a blame game. Live life. Life is not a blame game. Do not nurture guilt or bad vibes in others by blaming them. This will not help you or them. It will only make matters worse.
Do not blame oneself either. This too is unwholesome. Guilt created eats away zest for learning and improving. Guilt is the bane of life.
No guilt and no blame game in life please. Life would be more pleasant that way. Life presents wealth of issues (problems) for learning and improving. The issues and unhappiness (problems) of men are many and plentiful. Divinity will assist and bless but men must learn from the lessons of life by using the principles of inner truth common to and behind all faiths and sects. These principles are depicted in the body language of the seated image of the lord saint e.g. both feet balancing the elements to mean balancing issues in life for the yin and yang harmony, left hand in salutation to mean to be steady and go forward in life, and the sceptre in right hand to remind us to hold on to spiritual approach to life. All these did the lord saint Lord Bo Tien reiterated to us in the past from 1970 to 1984.
Many would cherish to be born as humans for the chance to learn as human life is a rich resource of experiences for learning and progress up the rebirth chain to enlightenment. This precious chance to be man is unfortunately limited to finite short life span of man (at three to four scores). Time is too short in human life for men to wallow in and be enslaved in guilt and be caught up by the blame game.
Don't blame others or oneself for the pains in life. We learn from pains in life. No pain no gain. No blame please for the pains in life. We can gain from pain i.e. the problems and issues in life. Problems though unpleasant and painful are learning opportunities. There are valuable values in life we can learn life and many of these are spiritual values that give us peace and fulfilment in life not only spiritually but in mundane world well.
Life after all is a gospel. God and saints speak to us through life. Life is the best gospel as it is a gospel that is being written and re-written by God to fit our ever changing needs. It is a living gospel. God and saints speak to us through gospel of life -- through life events and divine event language.
Even if we are in hell, God and saints will not forsake us and will reach out to us in many ways and the gospel of life is one way. Divinity never give up on us but we may unwisely give up on them from time to time.
At times, we may even blame God and saints. Because of our weakness, we even involve divinity in our blame game. Unbecoming as this may be, divinity never gives up on us.
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A BO TIEN (武天) MISSION INITIATIVE LAUNCHED ON 28TH SEPT 2010 BY INNER TRUTH NETIZEN 2. THE MISSION IS TO SHOW THE WAY TO HOPE, INNER PEACE AND ULTIMATELY SALVATION FOR ALL BEINGS. THE PURPOSE IS TO SAVE SOULS. IT IS WAY BEYOND NORMAL GOOD WORK LIKE CHARITY AND WELFARE ACTIVITIES. NO ONE SHALL BE SAVED BY GOOD WORKS ALONE BUT BY MORE THAN GOOD WORK. THERE IS NEED TO BE IMBUED WITH THE BASIC DOCTRINE COMMON TO AND BEHIND ALL RELIGIONS AND SECTS. LIVE IN DOCTRINE. DOCTRINE IN LIFE IS PARAMOUNT.