No 48 of Living Life Series 1
There is the common tendency to think others are wrong and to pass judgment.
It is perfectly alright to reflect and to have view points. But beyond that do not be self righteous and think well of one self and caste others in bad light.
Many see the specks of dust in others eyes but not in their own eyes. But even if we can see the dust in our own eyes, we should not even put ourselves in bad light.
We do not need to pass judgment on ourselves and feel that we are failures. It is perfectly normal to make mistakes or to do things in not as good a way as should be. We cannot be in state of prolonged inaction until we have the perfect way for there is always a better way. The rainbow recedes as we go near it or it may just vanish from our sight. We need to learn and we need to improve.
No venture and there will be no gain, so the sages say. We learn from what we have done and we learn how we could fare better in future scenarios. This is a far more positive approach. This is a far more loving and open approach, and far more nurturing as well.
Be nice to ourselves and to others. Allow ourselves to learn from our experiences. Do not brood, and do not set our views in stone. Do not be hard on ourselves. Do be kind to oneself. Love begins with oneself as the epicenter. So long we do learn and we can progress and share a thing or two, this is what matters most.
The good Lord Bo Tien reminds us not to have guilt and says that sin or wrong done to Divinity is not to be a concept as it is punitive and degrading. God and saints do not begrudge us for our shortcomings. They (God and saints) are not worse off by our shortcomings.
We bear the consequences of our shortcomings. But the moment we learn and be wiser from our experiences, we are better off. God and saints will rejoice that we are better off, and thus we will be ever more blessed.
We must ever be mindful that all have shortcomings and these do not make us fall short of the glory of God though this may seem to be the case. God wants us to learn and not to wallow in self blame or guilt. Praise Lord and God. Sin or wrong done to Divinity there should not be. And our shortcomings do not make us fall short of the glory of God. Shortcomings are just learning points. They give us opportunities to learn and to be closer to God and Saints.
.