No 195 of Living Life Series 1
There are many of us brethren who are upset by disappointments even when we have blessings coming our way. Often we will be happy with a new job, a promotion in our job or doing well in an examination. But when we examine or get used to the blessing, we become unhappy.
We asked why we made certain mistakes in a test or examination and why we cannot be better. We asked why we could not have as many a promotion in our job as some others and the promotion which was actually a blessing was regarded as something to be depressed about. We become sad when the blessing we have could have been better.
Lord Bo Tien has reminded us that in life we can have blessings or happiness but they are like the flower. The flower is beautiful as a whole but when we examine the flower in parts, we may not admire it as much and may even find the parts ugly. Life blessings are like that. When we do not have them we want them. When we have them, we soon find them wanting. Worldly blessings are like the flower, beautiful to behold as a whole but not so when examined and taken apart.
When we have worldly blessings we attract others to us, just like the flower its beauty and the nectar. When the nectar is no more, many of our so-called friends may leave us after getting what they want. Knowing thus, we should be mindful to go for blessings, appreciate and harness them but not indulge in them nor deny ourselves of the blessings. The flower and nectar attracts admirers and opportunists. We too attract others to us. Flowers too will wither but this does not mean we do not admire the flowers or treasure and utilize the blessings. We appreciate the flowers or blessings but do not over indulge. They are only means to an end and not the end in themselves. This is the Moderated or Balanced Way as expounded by Lord Buddha, avoiding the extreme of self-mortification or denial on one hand and over indulgence or attachment on the other hand.
We asked why we made certain mistakes in a test or examination and why we cannot be better. We asked why we could not have as many a promotion in our job as some others and the promotion which was actually a blessing was regarded as something to be depressed about. We become sad when the blessing we have could have been better.
Lord Bo Tien has reminded us that in life we can have blessings or happiness but they are like the flower. The flower is beautiful as a whole but when we examine the flower in parts, we may not admire it as much and may even find the parts ugly. Life blessings are like that. When we do not have them we want them. When we have them, we soon find them wanting. Worldly blessings are like the flower, beautiful to behold as a whole but not so when examined and taken apart.
When we have worldly blessings we attract others to us, just like the flower its beauty and the nectar. When the nectar is no more, many of our so-called friends may leave us after getting what they want. Knowing thus, we should be mindful to go for blessings, appreciate and harness them but not indulge in them nor deny ourselves of the blessings. The flower and nectar attracts admirers and opportunists. We too attract others to us. Flowers too will wither but this does not mean we do not admire the flowers or treasure and utilize the blessings. We appreciate the flowers or blessings but do not over indulge. They are only means to an end and not the end in themselves. This is the Moderated or Balanced Way as expounded by Lord Buddha, avoiding the extreme of self-mortification or denial on one hand and over indulgence or attachment on the other hand.
Extract from Life and Blessings - The Inner Truth Way
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