When Lord Bo Tien in 1975 anniversary message exhorted to all to be like the candle flame and come together as collection of candle flames to be better able to light up the lives of more men, the ramifications and deeper meaning of what He said did not sink in till the years flowed on in the river of time. Now in year 2011, the saying of the lord makes its impression in many ways. One such meaning surfaces when we look around at life of the young in society.
Lord Bo Tien |
In this modern age of fast pace life and consumerism that consume and eat away the peace and joy of life, one consequence is that often our youths are left lonely despite having friends and despite moving on from family to primary school and then to high school, college and university.
Each stage of the youth's life is short, fleeting and packed, with precious little time to make enduring friends and have socialisation so very important to keep the peace and to keep a youth in one piece and not be wrecked by the savages of modern day life of youth which robs away the fairy tale world of youth.
Friends come and go and even before friendship can take root, friends part ways for next stage in life at school or at work. As though this is not enough, to make matters worse, the youth returns home from school to an empty shell of the paltry nuclear family home. Often, even if there is no shortage of cash or facilities for modern day indulgence, the home is empty because siblings and parents are taken away by the bidding of modern life.
In crowded cities, the home is no longer a landed house, not even a cottage but a flat that is shrinking in floor area and space to be akin to be but better than a pigeon hole or worst still a well stocked pig sty.
The loneliness of modern life gnaws at the heartstrings and can pierce the heart and soul of the youth with anguish. Little wonder, some just cannot take it and end up addicts of sorts or end up with drugs, recidivism, vandalism or just be public nuisance by painting the town red.
What can we do for our youth? Where can they find long term fellowship that traverses and can out last the many fleeting stages of his life. Loneliness amidst modern life especially city life can rob away the zest for life.
Thank God that there is the weekend or after school church activity to turn to. By church is not meant just the Christian church but any spiritual house of worship of any religion.
The church does not turn them into priests or monks but allow for good wholesome gathering of youth for fellowship and for growth of flesh and spirit. There is more than mere prayers and worship. There are many avenues and activities to cater for the youthful exuberances and excesses. They channel them to wholesome outcomes.
We should thank God for that. Youths find fellowship that outlast the fleeting stages of life and provide fellow youths to hold hands across the span of many stages of life.
It is not so much the substance of what the church preaches but more importantly, the form that will heal and nurture the mind and body of today's youth. All these, the modern youth somehow often cannot substantially have from nuclear family home, from nursery, from school, from college, from university or from work.
With the disappearance of the iron rice bowl, work too is short lived and a youth often changes bosses as often as he changes pants. Praise God that we have youth ministries and groups at churches and places of worship to bring together youths in healthy social circles to do things together that they often cannot do outside the church or place of worship.
This is in keeping with Lord Bo Tien's message for men to gather together like candles to light up one anothers' lives and the lives of others as well. Cheers and be good to our youths by letting them belong to youth ministries of any of the many religious institutions.
Fellowship beyond home, school and work is important. This is necessary for fruitful and appealing life to keep our head on our shoulders and not just lose our mind - not just in mundane worldly life but in spiritual life as well. The same principle of fellowship applies equally well to spiritual as well as to secular mundane life. This has always been reiterated by saints and Lord Bo Tien is no exception. After all, He too is a messenger of God. Praise God and lord.
Praise the churches / places of worship for their good wholesome work for the youths of today and the future yet to be. Certainly, Lord Bo Tien too will share similar sentiments.
Praise the churches / places of worship for their good wholesome work for the youths of today and the future yet to be. Certainly, Lord Bo Tien too will share similar sentiments.
The lord messenger of God Almighty |
For fellowship and the three divine paths, go to post no 263
For discussion on Quote by late Senior Bro P. Philip
in relation to issue of fellowship beyond home, school and work, go to post no 262 --- More on fellowship at religious institutions
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