(Please read post 264 before this post 265. To read post 264, left click Blessings in every ill wind)
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If at any time, you feel hurt by the very ones whom you respect as your mentors or brethren in faith or in secular life, this should not ruffle you.
There will always be two sides of the coin and in the world of life be it on earth and elsewhere, this will be true. We do need to accept reality of this and make the peace in life by making do with the two sides of a person. Even the wiser amongst men have two sides but for some, the two sides are good but still there will be the better side.
Each coin has both the near and far sides. There will always be attributes of a mentor or brother which are near and dear to you and there too will be some attributes in him from which you wish to distance yourself. This is the far side.
There will always be two sides of the coin and in the world of life be it on earth and elsewhere, this will be true. We do need to accept reality of this and make the peace in life by making do with the two sides of a person. Even the wiser amongst men have two sides but for some, the two sides are good but still there will be the better side.
Each coin has both the near and far sides. There will always be attributes of a mentor or brother which are near and dear to you and there too will be some attributes in him from which you wish to distance yourself. This is the far side.
Lord Bo Tien "The far may be near and the near may be far to God and saints." |
Even Lord Bo Tien reminds us that the far may be near and the near may be far to God and saints. All are valued by God, be they believers or non-believers. There is somehow, like it or not, the far side to those who uphold divinity and you can see this too in the mentors or seniors in your temple or church. For those who are distant from divinity, their exemplary ways can make them near to God and saints even though they may be far and never attend any church or temple.
Our friends too can at times be unfriendly to us if they differ in ways of approach. At the other end, there are also those who are strangers and are not our friends. Surprisingly, they too can be friendly to us. The issue is not these people, be they friends or not but us. Are we able to make the peace out of life and make life work out for us?
If we do have to relate with those who appear hostile or aloof, do not be perturbed but keep the peace and we can still have blessings in every ill wind. Somehow, if we keep the peace in life by balancing the two sides of life and of the persons we relate with, as depicted in the image of Lord Bo Tien, we can bring out the near or good side in them and in life to balance out the not-so-good or far side.
The pakua too reminds us of the need to balance the yin and yang of life. There are eight trigrams. Each has three lines broken (yin) and unbroken (yang).
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Trigrams
The balance in situations is not necessarily the mid point of yin and yang but the equilibrium point and this point varies in differing life situations as depicted by the eight trigrams. One trigram has only unbroken lines of unequal length where the shorter line is less yang and relative yin to the longer line. This gives more insight into the way to nurture blessings even in every ill wind. (For more on the pakua go to Perspectives of the Pakua)
Cheers. Ill wind provides opportunities for spiritual cultivation. We become more resilient and resourceful in the process and these are the attributes necessary for success, peace and comfort in mundane and spiritual life
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Trigrams
The Pakua figures prominently at Bo Tien Temple shrine hall at 6th, Fourth Chin Bee Road Singapore 619708 Tel: 65 62626021 |
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