No 1542 of Living Life Series 1
We need to live. We cannot live by helping others to live and forget about living life ourselves.
The issue is to what extent we must do things for ourselves and take care of self interests.
We must ensure that when we live life we do not do so at expense of others. Then that will be sabotage to others.
At the same time, we must not help others to live and sacrifice our own life. This is service before self. We can consider this as sabotaging our own life.
There must be a win win situation. In old China, the sages refer to this as yin yang balance.
A ruler in old China would have to take care of his own interests. But if he was ruthless and enslaved his subjects and caused hardships in the process, such a ruler or emperor could not last long and the dynasty he belonged to would fall and be replaced.
Religion too cannot enslave followers and cause fear and be threatening. Religion must not threaten hell fire to impose itself on followers and to bring in more followers. Such a method will not last long.
But the opposite that followers can do wrong but will not have to face consequences because of divine grace is the ultimate opposite which will lead to moral rot and followers will be able to climb over God and saints. God and saints become their servants to serve them.
Bo Tien 武天 refers to the need to balance yin and yang in life and in religion. This principle is true and applicable to any religion, sect, temple, race, culture or nation.
Help others to live but need help ourselves to live too. No service before self but when we serve, we will be served somehow. Many who talk about service before self end up serving their own big egos when they proclaim service before self. They do some good which is still good but wants a big name for themselves - a good standing in society. That poses a big question of sincerity.