No 785 of Living Life Series 1
It is often difficult for people to handle the calamities of life, more so people of faith and religions. They often resort to the coping mechanism that this is the will of God and God will prevail. We should trust God and have faith in him. This is good but may still not explain the imperfections in life.
But at least, it enables people to be at peace and move on. At least, there is no guilt in men who have to face calamities.
People should not wallow in guilt and end up depressed with self blame and poor self esteem. They do not have to be downed and drowned by guilt of being wrong and sinful and thinking that God has punished them. The earlier they come to terms with calamities and be on top of the situation, the better it is for them.
Guilt and sin complex is the very thing any life loving person should not have. Get over it. Self torment will not be of any good. It is silly for a person to slap himself.
The good lord Lord Bo Tien (武天菩萨) stresses on need to love life and loving life means accepting the problems and imperfections of life. Do not be weighed down by guilt. There is no sin as the lord says whatever we do will not wrong or harm God and saints but only harm and affect ourselves and others. Men reap what they sow.
If men could not understand why life is so unfair to them and lament over it's imperfections, they should regard the setbacks and imperfections as but learning points. All can learn from the lessons of life, our lives and the lives of others. This the good lord Lord Bo Tien (武天菩萨) tells us.
If people can learn from setbacks in positive way and not wallow in misery with plenty of self-blame, they will be better off. They will not be lacking in love for life and for God and saints. Love means to love life even in face of imperfections and problems.
Love means to be comfortable with the downs of life so as to be more ready to harness the ups in life. Ironically, this means we need to accept imperfections and even be aware that the opportunities that imperfections and calamities do afford vast opportunities for us to learn and be stronger from the learning. We should love such opportunities to make ourselves stronger and be winners instead of losers.
Thus feeling of guilt is out. Self blame is out. Learn and make do. If problems are too overwhelming, at least leave things to God and saints. God and saints know best and do have faith in them.
But better still of course is to be strong and come out on top. Let imperfections be the resources for us to learn and come out stronger and be on top of life. This they refer to as managing the ups and downs, the yin and yang of life and be wiser and more peaceful from the learning.
But if we cannot do this, at least hold on to the faith that God will not fail us even if it appears life has failed us. The last thing is to blame God when God and saints did not and never even blame us for our imperfections. They do know we are imperfect and still learning and have long way to go.
If there is imperfection or wrong in us, we are the ones who wrong ourselves but we will never wrong God and saints, for God and saints are above being affected by imperfect men and beings. It must be stressed that we wronged themselves and one another instead.
God and saints have no anger and ill-will but we have if we are yet to perfect the peace of Tao or Way. They will not punish us and we do not hurt them in any sinful way. Sin means to harm God and saints. God and saints are above harm.
God and saints are of love, always and ever more. We too must be of love so that we are like God and saints. Then God and saints are in us and we in them.
God and saints are of love, always and ever more. We too must be of love so that we are like God and saints. Then God and saints are in us and we in them.