No 1267 of Living Life Series 1
Lord Bo Tien 武天菩萨 |
Husband and wife have between them the longitudinal axis of heaven above and hell below. This forms the crucifix of life.
The crucifix is a symbol of suffering and sacrifice. Husband and wife hold hands to handle the universe so that they can have a world of their own. They transform the crucifix from one of pain to one of peace and gain.
Together like the yin and yang they balanced out the universe between them so as to have zero sum of yin and yang. The result of course is more peace.
This is Tao - the logical way to have peace in life. This principle of yin and yang and its coupling to have balance is represented in the Taiji of the Bagua.
The Taiji of the Bagua |
The Bagua |
This is the central theme of common sense in what is referred by the good lord Lord Bo Tien 武天菩萨 as the Inner Truth of life that is in and behind life and all religions.
It has to do with the crucifix that we come to know as symbolic of Christ - the Lord Jesus.
The cross in ancient Rome was the worst of criminals. It symbolises the worst pains of life but the same cross can be turned into the highest peace that God wants men to have - as symbolised by Christ.
Marriage or wedlock has to do with the two meanings behind the crucifix. Marriage kicks off family life and there is both joy and sacrifice. The sacrifice is painful at times but if the crucifix of life is properly managed and negotiated, surely there will be more life and peace.
Chinese families traditionally respect the whole longitudinal axis. They respect and are at peace with God and saints above, with those in Hell below (eg. the Seventh Month Festival), and those in between such as the earth gods and all beings not above or below.
The newly married couple too must learn to tap into this culture based on the value of please and be pleased to have more peace. This is not worship but to live and let live - to better others if they want to better themselves.
Some may consider this as bribery but really what matters is the intent and the sincerity. Bribery will bring no peace in the long term. Sincerity will.