In life from cradle to grave, we need to make do with finite life span to carry out three aspects - responsibilities, initiatives and priorities. We can refer them in short as R.I.P.
We need to handle them before we can be at rest and be at peace. Some may rest by avoiding work and needs. They are not in peace.
We need to handle all responsibilities, have initiatives and prioritise them well before we can be at rest and rest in such a way we are still able to live life and be at peace even before "thy kingdom come."
We need to balance the yin and yang of the moment and be at rest while still continuing to balance the yin and yang in the next moment.
Then we can have peace from moment to moment. We are at rest while still handling the life continuum. We are stationary while still moving on in life. If we can have more of this, we are approaching sainthood or enlightenment.
But at each stage of life, we must face life and not run away. This is an adage of life.
A child has responsibilities, need to learn to have initiatives and how to prioritise. all these with the guidance of parents, school, and society. The same applies as he grows up but the priorities may be different.
We do not expect the child or young person to give up on life and be "holier than thou" mentality. There must be shift of priorities with change of life stations and social milieu.
What is right for grown man matured in years may not be for the young and those starting out in life. A young adult must concentrate on studies, job and support of family. He cannot give up on worldly life for that would be running away and not making it in life.
Then we can have peace from moment to moment. We are at rest while still handling the life continuum. We are stationary while still moving on in life. If we can have more of this, we are approaching sainthood or enlightenment.
But at each stage of life, we must face life and not run away. This is an adage of life.
A child has responsibilities, need to learn to have initiatives and how to prioritise. all these with the guidance of parents, school, and society. The same applies as he grows up but the priorities may be different.
We do not expect the child or young person to give up on life and be "holier than thou" mentality. There must be shift of priorities with change of life stations and social milieu.
What is right for grown man matured in years may not be for the young and those starting out in life. A young adult must concentrate on studies, job and support of family. He cannot give up on worldly life for that would be running away and not making it in life.
His spirituality lies in how he can be man and fulfill his life as man and yet contend with how to do so. If he cannot make it to be man and be good as man, how can he make it in life with God and saints. This adage is not just of Confucian school but one of the basic value of life common to all of mankind and God and saints are all for this.
Lord Bo Tien too has reminded that the principles of spiritual if applied to worldly life can bring fruits not only of peace of heart but worldly progress in his life. Then obviously worldly progress will reinforce spiritual. Think and reflect on this.
In essence, there must be balance and apportioning of time and resources on different aspects of life - family, parents, friend society, work, personal time and spiritual. But let the non-spiritual aspects be based mainly on spiritual values.
Then non-spiritual life becomes avenues for practice of spiritual values. The apportioning must vary from person to person and from life station to life station, for the individual to be atop life and be at peace of spirit.
In essence, there must be balance and apportioning of time and resources on different aspects of life - family, parents, friend society, work, personal time and spiritual. But let the non-spiritual aspects be based mainly on spiritual values.
Then non-spiritual life becomes avenues for practice of spiritual values. The apportioning must vary from person to person and from life station to life station, for the individual to be atop life and be at peace of spirit.
Life is like the bird in flight. It must be coordinated otherwise life or flight cannot be graceful |
Life must be coordinated like the flight of the bird. The different relationships in life must be coordinated for life to be that more effective, more peaceful and graceful.
We must have well balanced coordination of responsibilities, initiatives and prioritization in order to have restful life of peace - the two sets of RIP this article or post is all about.
We must have well balanced coordination of responsibilities, initiatives and prioritization in order to have restful life of peace - the two sets of RIP this article or post is all about.
There is no need to leave life but one must ever be with life, for God is life and life is God. But the meaning and context of how to be with life changes and must evolve with life stations as one moves on in time and in life.
There is the need to be atop life and not be swept around by life, the yin and yang, the ups and downs, the worldly contingencies and polarities. This is as depicted by the image of Lord Bo Tien with feet on elements. The image he says is the doctrine. If we see and live in Doctrine, we see and live in God and saints like Lord Bo Tien.
The scepter in right hand is the doctrine.. Let there be no mistake. We must be steadfast in living life of man in Doctrine as depicted by left hand in salutation |
We need to balance the yin and yang like fire and water which though opposite and antagonistic can indeed complement and be synergistic. This reference to fire and water was mentioned by Lord Bo Tien in his messages. Life would not be whole and wholesome without either.
When things don't seem alright and life is not peaceful and pleasant, we have to go back to the roots or basics --- the upper source for clear water as taught by saints like Lord Bo Tien.
The upper source is the oneness and values of God and saints in Heaven. We must be with life but live life based on the values of God and saints common to and basic to all religions. Omitofo