No 747 of Living Life Series 1
The word "woman" seems to come from the words "woe" and "man". But is a lady a woe to man?
Well, there is the saying to the contrary. Behind every successful man is a woman or rather a lady.
But alas there is also the saying that the upkeep of woman is the downfall of man.
This is just like the yin and yang philosophy of the East. If handled wrongly yin is woe to yang and yang is woe to yin. But if handled correctly, yin and yang complement one another though they may be different.
There is the belief that there is yin in yang and yang in yin. This is no contradiction but a deeper insight of yin and yang philosophy.
Thus in a marriage, male and female come together because they do have some common grounds to be able to co-exist and to co-live. But that is not enough and would make life dull and not exciting.
There must be differences but the differences must not result in conflicts and woes. The differences must be managed correctly such that they complement such that what is lacking in one partner is met by the other.
This is the ideal for a holy matrimony of a man and his lady. Why do we use the word "holy"? The reason is that even for a spiritual man, there must be the attainment of yin yang harmony to the highest level that is required for reaching sainthood.
Thus if a couple can achieve yin yang harmony in marital life, they can achieve the same or similar harmony of yin and yang attained by the spiritual guru or saint.
Well, there is the saying to the contrary. Behind every successful man is a woman or rather a lady.
But alas there is also the saying that the upkeep of woman is the downfall of man.
This is just like the yin and yang philosophy of the East. If handled wrongly yin is woe to yang and yang is woe to yin. But if handled correctly, yin and yang complement one another though they may be different.
Phoenix and dragon on invitation cards of Chinese weddings symbolizes yin and yang but often replaced by twin dragons for temples and ancestral halls. Do note the pearl of bliss |
Thus in a marriage, male and female come together because they do have some common grounds to be able to co-exist and to co-live. But that is not enough and would make life dull and not exciting.
There must be differences but the differences must not result in conflicts and woes. The differences must be managed correctly such that they complement such that what is lacking in one partner is met by the other.
This is the ideal for a holy matrimony of a man and his lady. Why do we use the word "holy"? The reason is that even for a spiritual man, there must be the attainment of yin yang harmony to the highest level that is required for reaching sainthood.
Thus if a couple can achieve yin yang harmony in marital life, they can achieve the same or similar harmony of yin and yang attained by the spiritual guru or saint.
Be married and may the bringing together of a man and his lady in wedlock put them on the path to yin yang harmony and sainthood.
Let goodness prevail always and ever more. Let there be double happiness and eventual sainthood through holy matrimony.
Double Happiness is Yin Yang Bliss a Chinese wedding graphic |
This can be achieved regardless of religion or culture. The bliss of marriage can be to the same level of spiritual bliss.
After all, religion is about love and peace in all circumstances. Marriage is the fertile ground for peace, love and bliss.
This understanding of sainthood through holy matrimony is derived from insight into the yin yang teaching of the good lord Lord Bo Tien (武天菩萨).
The good lord adds that the same principle works both ways for spiritual and worldly life. The principle of yin yang balance as depicted by his feet atop the elements works to bring marital and social bliss as well as for spiritual bliss as well.
After all, religion is about love and peace in all circumstances. Marriage is the fertile ground for peace, love and bliss.
This understanding of sainthood through holy matrimony is derived from insight into the yin yang teaching of the good lord Lord Bo Tien (武天菩萨).
The good lord adds that the same principle works both ways for spiritual and worldly life. The principle of yin yang balance as depicted by his feet atop the elements works to bring marital and social bliss as well as for spiritual bliss as well.
Lord Bo Tien (武天菩萨) |