No 1496 of Living Life Series 1
Know what we want and ask why, what and when we can have it. But be mindful that others too have what they want from us. They may even insist that their opinions are that of the top, be this company we work in or God above in the case of spiritual.
They may be not right and what they tell us are often more of their views than those of the top. We cannot off hand say that they are wrong. We have to go along, be with them, yet not be misguided or led by the nose.
But we cannot afford to tell them off in the face. We have to be tactful, friendly and appreciative and that way we can learn from them both their resource knowledge and their flaws which can make us do the wrong they do.
We have to be not blind but open our eyes to know more. This will not upset them but go a long way to bond with them. Then they will welcome us and be in our side.
Many a tactless person think he knows better and rush in to correct them. That if we do, will be the end of our job, commitment to religion or to work place.
They must feel good about us to want us to be on their side, be asset to them so that we lighten their jobs and be team players with them.
We have to learn the ropes from them, not make life and job onerous to them. If truly we know better, they will in time learn from us.
But first we must learn from them before we can impress on them what they can learn from us.
Never mind if we look stupid initially but at no time they must think we are threats to them.
This is what we can learn from life or a job.
Know the plus points and the minus points as well. Just be mindful and know how to be at peace and harmony with others.
Remember all that start well end up well. If we start with no love for others and on hostile note or wrong footing, life will swell against us and there will be storms and no calm seas.
Always remember we must be good listeners and not shoot off our big mouths. That is how we can have peace when there seems to be undercurrents under the calm surface.
Stir not the water and whip up a storm especially storms that are more than storms in tea cups. Be at peace and go along with the flow. Not our time to control or change the flow till they want us to do so.
That will have to wait and sometimes the wait is long as though forever. Keep the peace and with good luck, detente and providence, that chance may just come suddenly and be a pleasant surprise.