No 1374 of Living Life Series 1
The problems and issues of men are many and plentiful. Bo Tien 武天 did say. Deducing or inferring from what he said, it is obvious that it is no easy task (a problem of sorts) also to ensure there are no problems - to go upstream to the upper source for calm and clear water. Many just flow downstream with the current.
It is better to go upstream against the current and if this is a problem, then it is a happy one and therefore not a problem. The pursuit of pure and clear peace (the upper source) cannot be said to be a problem but the solution to all problems.
The solution cannot be a problem. The satisfaction of not being dragged along downstream with the majority is indeed a joy in itself. There is the sense of release, emancipation and of getting on top and above the yin and yang of life - the ups and downs.
We come out on top of life and not let life be on top of us. We are in control in the driver's seat and not be driven, swept away and bashed around. We become like God and saints when we try to be in control of life rather than be controlled and at mercy of life.
We do not need to dominate and be dominated. We set ourselves free. We are with life and with religions but free ourselves from religious bigotry and controversies. We are not dictated by crowd pulls and push.
We let others to be free to do as they think fit for the moment. We give the gentle nudge but do not harass them if they are not ready. We try to help them along if they happen to enter our life of the moment while we go for more of the inner peace and purity of the upper source - the pure inner truth behind all religions and life.
We are with life and not running away from life by having more of the peace in life day by day. We stay on top and be in control of life - not be dominated and yet not to dominate others. Dominance is not good in life, more so in religion.
Why dominate or be dominated? Do have the peace and be free like the dove - which is symbolic of the divine spirit.
This applies also to life beyond religion - to couples and to children.
Wives should not dominate and henpecked husbands. Husbands should not control wives with iron fists. Then there will be more peace and matrimonial harmony and peace. We may say this is a manifestation of that ultimate inner peace
Children should be taught at the earliest opportunities on the principles of life and should learn to be able to think for themselves and to think on their feet.
If we love them, we should set them free after helping them to pick up the tools of life. We should not be dominating and domineering. That will not work well in the long run.