The root of all issues lies in the ego or self - the need to please self.
Even not wanting self is to please self. There are those who think self is bad such that they deny self and even punish self thinking that self is bad. Thus they think that they have wronged and must be crucified. They crucify themselves not to save others but thinking they can save themselves.
This is self-mortification and brings one away from peace of life. It is as bad if not worse than indulging in one's ego and making sure life works only for oneself and never mind even if to the detriment of others.
Thus it is necessary to know the true nature of life and that ignorance or wrong understanding of life is behind all.
If everything in life must come to an end, this does not mean that having them is pointless that we idle our time away and do nothing. That is self mortification or deprivation which would be inviting more woes than avoiding woes.
If there is to be an end in all the good things in worldly life, then living it up to the nines may seem the answer to some. But alas this only makes matters worse as the one who indulges in life wants ever the more.
Won't this create more strife and woes as well, more so when life and all the seemingly good things in life must end somehow. This is worse so if it ends abruptly usually to the so-called lucky few in old age. The abrupt change after many decades of good life can be a precipitous drop and hurtful to the core.
We cannot put off the day of reckoning which is the day good things in worldly life must end. We must be mindful in daily life that all good worldly things will not be forever. By doing so, we treasure life and these good things but do not greedily go for more than we could treasure.
This is good balancing act and gives us the space in life to be aware of the beauty of life as it goes by. This translates to having a pace of life that is optimal to peace in life and allows time for leisure.
We do not want to swing to life of nothing, doing nothing and wanting nothing. Wanting nothing is itself a want of sorts and is not practical and will cause issues rather than avert issues in life.
Wanting more means to be in rat race and to find no time for the peace in life. This is far from desirable. The mother of all problems is our wants. Can't we just live life and move on in life, having some worldly blessings but not go greedily for more and more?
That would be best and that will give time for us to notice and enjoy the smell of flowers and the wonders of life and nature. Then we will be at peace and neither want more nor want nothing.
We will still need the little things in life and a little more to enable life in the way that gives peace and allow us to come to terms with the mortal nature of life and not expect immortality of the flesh.
Let us know life better and not let life have the better of us. This the sages of old in China refer to as Tao.
The wonderful part is that we do not need to be Taoists to have Tao or balance in life. By having Tao here and now, we reap peace and this peace cultivation elevates us step by step to sainthood not just in afterlife but even here and now.
We often say we want a peaceful life. We wish to be at a place where there is no noise, no problem and no tough work. But this is not true peace. To be in the midst of all the chaos of life, and still be calm at heart is what "peace" is.
This is what spiritual life or Tao is all about. Tao is in all religions and the basics of Tao is the same behind all religions. This is the inner truth the good lord Lord Bo Tien referred to when he descended in 1969 in Singapore.
We often say we want a peaceful life. We wish to be at a place where there is no noise, no problem and no tough work. But this is not true peace. To be in the midst of all the chaos of life, and still be calm at heart is what "peace" is.
This is what spiritual life or Tao is all about. Tao is in all religions and the basics of Tao is the same behind all religions. This is the inner truth the good lord Lord Bo Tien referred to when he descended in 1969 in Singapore.